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Are you bad at breaking up with people? Would you know if you were?
Here are some signs that you need a little bit more finesse when it comes to ending relationships.
Your Ex Refuses to Even Say Hello
Granted, breakups aren’t easy for anyone, but if your ex is so mad at you they can’t even manage a simple “hello” when you’re out, either you were a heel while you were dating or you broke up in the worst way possible and they’re still angry about it.
You Always Break Up in Public So They Won’t Cause a Scene
People need time to process their emotions, so give them time to do it by breaking up in a private location, away from onlookers. Stop worrying about your date getting angry. Anger is part of the emotional process in healing. They deserve to feel whatever it is they feel. Give them that.
You Have a Reputation for Bad Breakups
If your ex’s have talked to their friends, who have in turn talked to their friends, and everyone knows you’re a terrible breaker upper, you’ve got issues. Word travels fast in the dating world.
You Would Rather Stop Calling Someone Rather Than Tell Them It’s Over
If you make your dates guess that you’ve broken up with them, that’s bad form. It’s really not very difficult to tell someone “we’re over” and if you can break up properly, you’ll actually move on in a more healthy way to the next relationship.