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You meet someone…. you hit it off…. and then something happens and the person isn’t interested in you anymore. They don’t ask you out again, or, when you ask they turn you down.All of it leaves you wondering why. Here are a few reasons why you might not be getting a second date.
You Arrived Late
Leaving someone waiting, especially on a first date, can evoke plenty of negative feelings. The whole time the person is waiting for you they might wonder if you really didn’t like them, if you are going to stand them up, if they aren’t attractive enough….
So even if the date went okay, being tardy could be enough to change their mind to “no” when you ask them for a second date.
You Talked About Your Ex Too Much
Chatting about your ex can give off lots of negative vibes, but it can also make someone wonder if you’re over your previous girlfriend or boyfriend. No one wants to be with someone who has a foot in a another relationship or even in the memory of one. Think back over your date, and if you started a few too many sentences with, “My ex thought” or “My ex always…” then be sure to watch it the next time you’re on a first date.
There Just Wasn’t Any Chemistry
It’s true, there has to be something that “clicks” between the two of you. Some people have it instantly, and some just don’t. If you lacked chemistry with someone, never take it personally.