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There are a few guys I’ve encountered in the last few years who write to me about whether or not to break up with their girlfriend.
This is an interesting question, because only the two people in the relationship can really decide what’s right for them. However, there are a few situations that seem to be a sign that the relationship just isn’t meant to be. If you’re a guy wondering if you should stick with your gal, here are a few things to consider.
The Big No No’s
If a girl cheats on you, steals money from you, or lies, it’s time to say ba-bye! Don’t tolerate for a girl who doesn’t treat you right.
She Wants Marriage, You Don’t
If you’re staying with a girl who wants a more of a definitive future than you’re willing to give right now, you have to be honest with yourself. Do you love her? Do you want to be with her forever? What are you waiting for?
Some guys stay with a girl because it’s easy to be with her. But marry her? They already know in their heart they don’t want to do that. If this sounds like you, give your relationship some consideration and let your girlfriend find someone that shares the same future goals as her.
She’s Holding You at Arm’s Length
If you want to get married or move in or move the relationship in some forward direction and she doesn’t, it might be time to evaluate your relationship. Does she really love you? Will she ever give you the type of love you deserve? You deserve more than a girl who is emotionally absent or always a bit unsure if she wants to commit.